Close Strangers

Have you ever wondered why sometimes it feels easier to tell a complete stranger something we can't bring ourselves to talk about with the people closest to us?

Someone we've never met before — and may never see again.

We can tell them about our fears, our problems, our mistakes, our relationships. Things we've kept buried for years. And strangely enough, sometimes doing that feels much easier than simply sitting across from someone we love and saying, “There's something I need to tell you.”

But why?

Maybe it's because we're afraid of losing someone we love.

We're afraid of disappointing them. Afraid of being judged. Afraid that once we've said it out loud, they'll start looking at us differently. That something in the relationship will change, trust will disappear, or that familiar feeling that everything between us is okay will no longer be there.

And yet, you'd think that if anyone could understand us and accept us for who we are, it would be the people closest to us.

But a stranger?

They don't know us. They don't know our past, our habits, or the way we usually behave. They don't carry an image in their head of who we're “supposed” to be.

Around them, we don't have to remain the strong son, the good daughter, the dependable friend, or the person who always has everything under control.

There's also a strange kind of freedom in knowing that when the conversation is over, you can simply walk away.

They'll carry your story with them.

And you'll carry theirs.

Maybe that's why complete strangers can sometimes become closer to us in just a few hours than people we've known our entire lives.

Not because they truly know us better.

But because, for one brief moment, we allowed them to see a part of us we've grown used to hiding from everyone else.

May the people closest to you always be the ones you can talk to most openly.

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